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lee-airton-2 My name is Lee Airton. I’ve been involved for many years in queer and transgender communities during the rise of current gender-neutral pronoun usage. I have been using singular they as my personal pronoun since 2011. My motivation for creating this blog came from experiences about pronouns in transgender and/or non-binary peoples’ lives, both my own and those of others. My experiences with TIMP and the Canadian political climate around gender-neutral pronouns led me to found the No Big Deal Campaign last fall, which helps people use and show their support for transgender peoples’ pronouns.

I’m an Assistant Professor in the Faculty of Education at Queen’s University. I hold a Ph.D. in Education from York University, and previous degrees in education and gender studies from McGill University. You can learn more about my work by visiting my website.




  1. No questions…yet. I just want to say I am very thankful to have stumbled upon this blog. I am cis-gendered but looking use “they” pronoun as a means of erasing the lines between my masculinity and femininity (because why should everything be so stratified and binary anyway?) Going forward “professionally” and academically, I think it is important to make room for “they” and I’m inspired that others are doing the same. Thanks for writing about your experiences and answering questions…the information is invaluable!

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    1. Thank you so much for your comment, beegirl53! I’m so glad that TIMP is useful, even when it becomes a little dormant given my workload fluctuations. Please keep in touch! 🙂

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  2. I’m hoping this reaches you. I would really love to ask a question. I’m not young and not tech savvy, but want to respect and acknowledge and hold in high esteem a friend and co worker. How can I ask a question and find the answer? Thank you for your help.



    1. Hello Kim! So very happy to hear from you. You are welcome to ask me a question in this comment thread, if that is easiest. You can also click on the ‘supporting users’ and ‘work’ tags in the list of tags above at right, in case anything there is helpful. But please do use this space to ask a question of your own.


  3. I’m writing a speech in school to argue that singular they should be allowed in American English. My teachers have always been refusing to refer to me by my preferred pronouns ever since I first asked them. Your advice on this blog is so inspirational and I can’t help but to want to continue to try and convince my teachers that it is not incorrect to use they as a singular pronoun. Thank you so much Lee.

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  4. Hi,
    I am looking for some advice on how to best help the LGBTQ community. I own, My, and LGBT resource I am currently looking to develop these sites but don’t really have a clear vision of how to utilize them for maximum impact on the LGBTQ community.
    I would appreciate any suggestions,
    Straight Ally


  5. Question regarding verb agreements with the singular ‘they’.

    Should the single or plural verb agreement be used with they when the ‘they’ is singular?

    e.g. Would one say “they goes to work every morning” when describing your weekday morning routine?


    1. “The go to work every morning”
      The speech is not meant to become awkward. Like when people say “They is going to the store” it is incorrect. The pronoun is singular; however, to keep speech from being awkward, use it in a sentence with the same words as if plural “They are going to the store”


    1. Hello Abbeh!

      Good question! I’m not sure and will look into it. You can follow me on Tumblr or on Twitter, where my more formal posts get posted as well. I’ll try to work out an RSS feed or similar.

      Take care,




      1. Hi, I own ( also and LGBT resource recently started receiving emails with questions from people who are visiting your blog. I’m not sure why I am receiving copies of their questions???

        Cheers, Keith 386-848-9183



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